Are you enjoying the toddler years age? Do the two’s need to be terrible? Where did my threenager learn this stuff! Strangers always commenting “You’ve got your hands full.” Toddlers really get a bad rap. This article will discuss various ways to ease some frustration during the toddler years age.
Preparation for the toddler years age
First of all there will be spills and meltdowns. Its a fact. Knowing how to prepare for them is extremely important.
Your toddler’s receptive language is not at the same level the same as their expressive language. Because of this many meltdowns originate with our toddler not being able to express their needs and be understood. A simple way to help is to have pictures available for your toddler to point to.
After they point to the picture respond as if the request was vocalized. “You would like a glass of milk.” Sign language for common requested items is very helpful and another great option.
Independence for toddlers
Also keep in mind an important part of the toddler life is independence. Encourage independence at every opportunity.
Let them have the chance to put on their pants. Yes, they will be backwards often. Resist the urge to correct them initially.
Toddlers are developmentally at a point where they are looking to be independent.
Let the child lead in the toddler years
Practice letting the child lead (sometimes) and just watch them.
That is to say put the phone down. Turn off the TV or tablet. Don’t narrate everything that happens (there is a time for that). Don’t try to entertain or optimize the moment. Give the child a chance everyday to be free to explore.
Practice and scaffold new skills
Use the scaffolding system when it comes to new skills. If you take a step back and watch without helping at the first sign of struggle you will see exceptional problem solving skills. Praise the hard work and creative solution!
Above all accept where your toddler is and provide lots of opportunities to practice skills. Let the child clean the spill and accept it wont be perfect. Because you know they will happen prepare the space with towels the toddler can use to clean up.
The toddler years age can be full of joy and frustration. Toddlers who have the chance to explore their world and plenty of opportunities to try new things thrive.